HOW I WORK
We are shaped, more than we tend to notice, by what surrounds us – the roles we hold, the expectations we carry, the conditioning that quietly sets the terms.
A reflective space is where that begins to turn: where you can hear yourself underneath it, and reach for understanding rather than a fix.
What I mean by reflective space
By reflective space, I don't mean a room where you're advised, fixed, or pointed toward someone else's idea of good. I mean a quality of thinking that becomes possible when you're genuinely present – to yourself, to whoever you're with, and to the world around you.
At some point in my practice, I arrived at a certain realisation that has shaped everything since: relationship is where the work is. For most of us, most of the time, sidestepping that reality is what keeps us stuck; nothing can grow from there. A reflective space is where that relational reality can be faced, and where things can begin to move.
People come to that kind of space when the surface answers have run out. When they need to think more clearly about what's really going on, and to find where they stand within it.
One way of working, three places to apply it
I work in three domains. With individual leaders, through coaching. With other coaches and with leaders who coach, through supervision. With small and medium-sized organisations, through consulting in strategy, organisation design and culture.
What unites them is a single way of seeing: that people, practices and organisations are all shaped by the environments – relational, structural, cultural – they are part of, and that healthier ways of being emerge when those environments are properly attended to.
The same lens at three different distances.
APPLIED TO A PERSON
Leadership Coaching
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APPLIED TO A PRACTICE
Coaching Supervision
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APPLIED TO AN ORGANISATION
Consulting
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Working outdoors
I have worked outdoors with clients for over twenty years, and what began as an intuition has become a settled understanding. The natural world isn't a backdrop to the work, or a pleasant setting for it. Out there, it shapes thinking in ways an office rarely does.
Reflective practice is itself a systemic discipline, and placing it inside a living system gives it something a room cannot. The natural world holds complexity without rushing to resolve it, and asks the same of us. When the conditions are right, it reaches places that talking alone does not.
Outdoor sessions are one signature method, not the defining frame of the practice. We work indoors too, online and in person. The choice depends on what the work needs.
What sits underneath
The reflective space has roots. My supervision practice sits within the ICCS Concentric Circles model, integrating Proctor's three supervisory functions, Heron's six categories of intervention, and Hawkins and Shohet's seven-eyed model. Alongside these sit psychodynamic, systemic and transactional perspectives, EQ assessment work, attachment theory, and parts work informed by IFS – held within a trauma-informed practice.
The frameworks are scaffolding for the work, not the work itself.
The coaches, leaders and organisations I most often work with are usually navigating several things at once – organisational complexity, relational difficulty, personal thresholds, the exhaustion of work that asks a great deal of them. The same lens at three different distances.
Reflective spaces, for complex lives.
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